Shifting Lenses

Third Culture Kids: “children who move between cultures before they have had the opportunity to fully develop their personal and cultural identity”.

We are two third culture kids documenting what we have observed in the travels we have been so fortunate to experience. Home for us is the USA, but also China for eight years, and now Singapore. Growing up in different countries has shaped the way we view the world. We hope you enjoy reading our reflections on our expat life and travels.

When I was a young kid growing up in Beijing, we went to Bali like my American peers went to Florida. It was the perfect escape from Beijing’s cold and pollution: excellent weather, great food, and relatively inexpensive hotels. We went there often enough that I took the uniqueness of Balinese culture for granted.

It was only when we went back after a five-year hiatus that I truly appreciated the culture of one of my favorite holiday destinations. In the predominantly Muslim country of Indonesia, Bali is unique for its Hinduism. The beautiful open-air temples throughout the island offer a glimpse into the importance of religion, both in the past and present. The Balinese people have a warmth and friendliness that goes well beyond hotel culture. The smell of incense and the offerings at the many small altars (Canang Sari) immerse you in a world that is very different from others.

Despite the endless, chaotic stream of motorcycles on the roads and motorized water sports on the beaches, this is a calming place for me. Maybe it’s because of the nostalgia it holds for me, or maybe it’s because we are immersed in a culture focused on harmony and balance in all aspects of life. Being around people who are actively showing gratitude for everything each day rubs off on you a little bit. Spending time in Balinese culture leaves you feeling enlightened, even if only temporarily.

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