Shifting Lenses

Third Culture Kids: “children who move between cultures before they have had the opportunity to fully develop their personal and cultural identity”.

We are two third culture kids documenting what we have observed in the travels we have been so fortunate to experience. Home for us is the USA, but also China for eight years, and now Singapore. Growing up in different countries has shaped the way we view the world. We hope you enjoy reading our reflections on our expat life and travels.

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  • The Dominican Republic is the Caribbean’s most popular destination, drawing over 10 million visitors annually. The “DR” is famous for all-inclusive resorts and white-sand beaches. Apparently, it also has a rich colonial history. But I doubt many of the 10 million leave their vacation having learned about the history or culture of the country they…

  • 10 years ago my family went to Lang Co, Vietnam. Sadly, the most vivid memory of the trip is that we were advised not to swim in the ocean or touch the water. This is not ideal when you are a kid at a beachfront resort on holiday. Recently, when talking to my parents about…

  • My favorite NBA team had a great year. I am a lifelong Spurs fan. My family is from the area, and I was frequently dressed in a Spurs gear even as a baby. The energy in San Antonio around the Spurs is intense, and I feel incredibly lucky to have been able to attend a…

  • It is scientifically proven that Barbados has some of the purest fresh water in the world. The citizens take great pride in this, and it is even mentioned at hotel check-in. You probably assume I am talking about the beaches, but I am NOT. The ocean is nice, too. However, I am referring to their…

  • The Singapore Botanic Gardens are a national treasure. Founded in 1859, it is a tropical paradise located at the edge of Singapore’s Orchard Road shopping district and is the country’s first UNESCO World Heritage Site. We live pretty close to the gardens and my parents go walking or running there frequently. It is also one…

  • Southeast Asia is a massive and diverse place. I have been very lucky to travel to many different places in the region. My family loves the ocean, so many of these destinations have been on the beach. On these holidays, I rarely see local people enjoying the ocean. Even at public beaches, the sand is…

  • When I look back on my time in Beijing, some of my strongest memories are of the parks. If we were waiting for a table at a restaurant, my sister and I would often walk to a nearby park and play on the equipment. Interestingly, the equipment was not always slides or climbing structures. Much…

  • One of my favorite things to do while traveling is to take in a sporting event. My parents also enjoy this, so we have been lucky enough to see a variety of sports in many different locations over the years. Even though we have been to Thailand, my parents have never wanted to see Thai…

  • Over the past few months, we’ve taken a break from the blog. My sister and co-founder has been busy with college prep and senior year activities, while I have started several new volunteer roles that have been time-consuming during the training phase. Now that my training is over, I have time to reflect on the…

  • Fiji is universally recognized as one of the world’s most iconic island destinations, where five-star resorts beautifully dot the pristine coastlines. It’s unfortunate that travelers often don’t take more time to learn about the history and culture that make a place like this truly unique. I’m thankful that my parents always prioritized learning a bit…

  • Looking back, our trip to the Philippines was easily one of the most memorable vacations of my younger years. It was all about sharp contrasts. We kicked things off in the crazy urban sprawl of Manila and wrapped up our stay on the island paradise of Palawan. The Manila Metro area is gigantic, 14 million…

  • It seems there is always a bit of competition among states, and I think it’s just human nature. The attitudes of people in the Northeastern USA, particularly the tri-state area of New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut, definitely take part in this. New Jersey is often looked down upon by Connecticut and New York residents.…

  • Las Vegas is famously known as Sin City, and few would deny the name is appropriate. Tourism is so engrained in the local culture that it has become the city’s whole identity. It makes you curious what the city would be like if that first casino had never opened. I’m pretty sure they wouldn’t have…

  • I can’t remember how I became a Chelsea fan, but I have been one ever since I started following professional football years ago. My passion for the team grew when they acquired my favorite American player, Christian Pulisic, in 2019. Seeing a game at Stamford Bridge was a dream come true, and it lived up…

  • For many National Park enthusiasts, Zion National Park in Utah is among the most picturesque. Iconic hiking, like the challenging Angel’s Landing and truly unique experiences like The Narrows, combine with cliffs, canyons, and the Virgin River to make a stunningly beautiful place. Its weather and access also make it a great destination. A reasonable…

  • Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris is one of the most iconic historic churches in the world. The world was shocked when it was devastated by fire in April 2019. My family visited Paris a short time later, in June 2019. Of course, we couldn’t go inside. Luckily for us, Paris has no shortage of other…

  • A quick search will tell you that Rome receives 51.4 million tourists every year. This is not surprising considering it has some of the most famous sights in the world and seems to be on every international traveler’s bucket list. The more surprising number is that the population of Rome is only 2.75 million. This…

  • Watching the best player in the world is the ultimate dream for any soccer fan. For many Americans, that dream is now more attainable than ever with the G.O.A.T., Lionel Messi, playing for Inter Miami. I had the chance to fulfill that dream years ago, when I was still in elementary school and Messi was…

  • Years ago, my family and I went on a holiday to Myanmar. At the time, I was in upper elementary, and it seemed like a perfectly normal trip for people living and traveling in Asia. We started in Yangon, then traveled to Bagan, and finally relaxed on Ngapali Beach. I remember a lot from that…

  • On a beautiful early October day, my family took a surf lesson on a beautiful beach in Portugal. Although we were only a short distance from the big-wave hub of Nazaré, the waves were gentle and rolling—perfect for beginners. Since it was the off-season, the beach town was sleepy, and the day was great. Our…

  • When my family lived in Beijing, we would occasionally go see our favorite local team, the Guoan, play in the old Workers’ Stadium. Built in 1959 and since demolished, the stadium offered a great, one-of-a-kind experience. I’m not even sure I want to go to the new stadium, even though I still root for the…

  • New Orleans has one of the most unique cultures in the United States. While cities like Miami and San Antonio clearly show Cuban or Mexican influence, the French Quarter doesn’t feel like you’re in France. The food and culture are distinctly New Orleans. The city’s culture is homegrown, from the iconic music to the spicy…

  • New York is a true melting pot, which makes it unique among my favorite cultural cities. While many other cities with a great cultural vibe have a dominant culture that makes you feel like you’re in a different country, New York’s cultural scene is defined by its incredible diversity. New York’s skyscrapers don’t necessarily scream…

  • I have a soft spot for Miami. The white sand beaches with their colorful lifeguard stands are iconic, and the wide sidewalk that runs alongside the beach is perfect for biking, skating, or just walking and taking in the view. The city’s Art Deco architecture, especially in South Beach, is unique and distinctly Miami. It…

  • *Warning* This is a very biased post.  I move a lot, but San Antonio is my home city.  My summers and holidays are spent here and I know this city perhaps better than any place on earth.  As a young kid, it was a dream.  Theme parks, water parks, museums, the zoo, caverns, the best…

  • When I was a young kid, a trip to Bali was my family’s go-to holiday, but this summer, I had the chance to visit Komodo National Park and the surrounding area. It was an incredible trip. We saw the legendary Komodo dragons, the largest lizards in the world. They were magnificent and huge, and I…

  • When I was a young kid growing up in Beijing, we went to Bali like my American peers went to Florida. It was the perfect escape from Beijing’s cold and pollution: excellent weather, great food, and relatively inexpensive hotels. We went there often enough that I took the uniqueness of Balinese culture for granted. It…

  • I love the ocean. Whether it’s a beach or a bay, water brings happiness and calmness to me. I enjoy exploring different beach destinations because, beyond the water, it’s fun to see the cultural differences. A consistent theme is that life moves at a slower pace. Maybe that’s because of the mix of vacationing tourists…

  • Of all the family holidays I’ve taken in Asia, one of my most memorable was a 2017 trip to Chiang Mai. While I wish I could say it was because of the amazing temples or lively markets, the truth is, the most memorable part was the incredible hotel we stayed at, the Dhara Dhevi. The…

  • Sometimes “must-see” attractions can be a bit of a letdown, and initially, I would have put Brussels’ Manneken Pis in this category. Honestly, my expectations were pretty low going into it. The small statue and fountain itself met those low expectations, and the surrounding crowd exceeded my expectations.   However, my appreciation for the landmark…