Shifting Lenses

It seems there is always a bit of competition among states, and I think it’s just human nature. The attitudes of people in the Northeastern USA, particularly the tri-state area of New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut, definitely take part in this. New Jersey is often looked down upon by Connecticut and New York residents. However, having lived in New Jersey for a while and traveled the area, I found they are surprisingly similar, especially New Jersey and Connecticut.

Both states rely heavily on nearby metropolitan hubs: New Jersey is to Philadelphia/New York as Connecticut is to Boston/New York. Both states have incredibly affluent areas alongside some pretty rough places. And both feature extensive industrial scenery as you drive along the major freeways.

Yet, there are areas where New Jersey has a clear lead in things that should generate tourism and respect. New Jersey has significantly more Revolutionary War history than Connecticut, earning it the title, “Crossroads of the American Revolution.” It also boasts more and generally better beaches. Yet, despite these facts, one state brings to mind Martha Stewart, while the other brings to mind Tony Soprano.

The culture of New Jersey is truly unique. Even though the state may not get much respect from outsiders, locals have immense state pride. Diner culture in Jersey is unmatched in any other state and you are never far from a place with a 15-page menu and a display case filled with cakes and pies. The Shore is its own subculture. I know many New Jerseyans who can afford to travel the world, but would rather drive to the Shore and rent a house.

New Jersey also lives up to its “Garden State” nickname, offering endless mountain trails that become even more beautiful in the fall, plus skiing in the northern part of the state. Furthermore, their public schools consistently rank among the best in the country. They even host two NFL teams and one MLS teams…the “New York” Giants, “New York” Jets, and “New York” Red Bulls.

Honestly, New Jersey has a lot to be proud of, and locals are indeed fiercely proud and loyal. Many New Jerseyans are known for embracing or laughing off negative stereotypes and simply opt to maintain that strong identity.